***SUCCESS STORY***  

Ive been a Wussy all my life, hooked up with a  seemingly great gal, married, etc. and she started  being unhappy. She wanted to separate and the more  I tried to "give her what she wanted" the worse it  got. So here I was, starting all over again. got  your e-book and I was insulted at first about the  things I read, but I tried not to judge it yet. I  went on to test your theories and found a lot of  it really works and is true, especially about not  giving a woman what she wants (not directly or  immediately anyway). I went onto get your  Advanced DVD series and I am very impressed at  how much more useful information is there,  especially the stuff about re-programming the way  we think about our selves and goals in situations.   

Ive started approaching more and more 10's (not  that women should be "rated") being myself and  most importantly: as if I could care less about  talking to them, as if they owe me something  already, poking fun at something they say, do,  have, or are (short, amazon tall, etc) and bust  their balls for it... but ALWAYS in a playful  friendly way with a big cocky smile. They eat it  up and cant get enough, so I try to pull back  (thats where my problem is). Since im still a  newbie I want to keep going but I realize thats  exactly when I need to hit the breaks and give  her the gift of missing me, and making her  confused about what just happened so shell be  thinking about me till we meet again ;) .. this  wont be my last posting to you David!!   


 >>>MY COMMENTS:  

Well, my hat is off to you.  

I don't actually wear a hat, but you get the idea.  

You have done something that I have A LOT of respect for...  You've opened your mind to a new way of looking at something.  

You mentioned that when you first read my book you initially felt "insulted".  

But you also say that you tried not to judge what you were reading, and instead you went out and TESTED THE MATERIALS yourself to see if they actually worked for you.  

Look, this is a big deal.  

The reason I have so much admiration for you is because most men are too stuck in one way of thinking to even TRY something new.  

Every once in awhile I get an email from a guy who says "your techniques would NEVER work"... or "I'll bet you're making up all of the emails in your newsletters"... etc.  

I have to laugh to myself when I see this kind of thing.  

First of all, all you have to do is walk out your door, and TRY some of the things you're learning.  

Just TRY THEM.  

Test them out (like you did). 

 Take a week of your life and try new things to see if they work.  

It so simple.  

But then again, I guess it isn't.  

Well, congratulations again for actually putting yourself out there, controlling your emotions, and putting it to the test.  

You're going to see DRAMATIC improvements in the near future with women.  

Again, you have my respect for doing something that most guys don't have the guts to do.    


***SUCCESS STORY***  

Dave,  

I've always been big into motivational materials.   I've read every one of Napleon Hill's books at  least 10 times each plus dozens of others from  several authors. I bought your DVD series  obviously to increase my success with women but  the material applies to all areas of life. I've  watched it over and over and over again during  the past 2 months and the changes are amazing. A  lot of potential I had locked up inside me seems  to have been unleashed.  Going out and having  success with women definitely adds confidence to  all areas of life but the self-image and  self-confidence exercises you go through have had  a lot to do with it as well.    

For quite some time I'd been working on finishing  up a sales training book and audio program based  on the huge success I've had in my selling career  using unconventional methods.  Finally, about a  month ago while watching your program again  something just snapped in my head and I sat down,  got the website up, got the marketing started,  finished up the product, and I'm already making  more money from that than from my job and already  have booked my first speaking engagement.   Seriously, your program and the self-improvement  messages and exercises had a lot to do with it.  (Interestingly, I've also had the concept of  perceived "fame" with women proven to me. My site  has an "about the author" page with a photo and  several women have already emailed me with  pictures practically begging to meet me in  person).  The conversion rate from my homemade  site has been high enough to justify the expense  of having a custom professional site done which  is in the works now.    

Dave, thanks not only for more success with women  but in my life in general!   

Things are definitely going to the next level for  me and this bit of business success has also  changed my perspective and my "reality" with  women in a big way too, and when I go out it's  obvious that they know it without me having to  say a word.   

FR  

Phoenix AZ    


>>>MY COMMENTS:  

Yes, as you can probably tell, I've read quite a few "self help" books myself, and spent a lot of time reading "motivational materials".  

I found something VERY SIMILAR to what you found in my journey over the last few years...  

Guys who go from unsuccessful to successful with women also tend to find success in other areas of their lives as well.  

There's something about being CONFIDENT in the fact that you can leave your house anytime, any day, anywhere and meet women that kind of puts your mind "at ease".  

I can remember five years ago or so in my own life... when I was single, I was insecure.  

That was that.  

If I didn't have a girlfriend, I felt this STRONG insecurity and weakness. It was a kind of "shadow" that covered all of the other areas of my life.  

Now things are very different.  

By the way, let's face reality for a minute... most guys are trying to be successful in life to attract women.  

Why do guys try to earn a lot of money?  

Why do guys strive for fame?  

Why do guys compete with each other?  

Of course, it's not ALL for women. But it is MOSTLY for women in the long run.  

Back to what I was saying...  

Now that I can meet women anytime I want, it has freed up a part of my mind that used to be devoted to trying to figure out how to get a girlfriend... and worrying because I didn't have one.  

And, of course, my own personal success has improved as well.  

I think you're right on track here... thanks for the email.     


***QUESTION***  

Dave,    

Finally a chance came to really test your book  and I was overwhelmed by the results.  I had  gotten your online book about 6 months ago and  now that I'm out of Student Teaching I have time  to put it to work.  I was the DD for a trip to a  really hot club in NC.  I overcame my fear of  dancing and got out there. I was rejected by some  girls but that didn't matter: I ended up spending  some good time with the most INCREDIBLE looking  woman I have ever seen.  She is as if God had put  her together out of all my favorite things in a  woman.    

I played by the rules.  Left her and danced with  several others just when things were looking  great.  Just before closing time I've got her by  the hand leading her to the bar. A couple of  cocky/funny minutes and I have her email and  phone number.  What a confidence booster!    

Only thing is, she is spanish and doesn't speak  english very well.  Thank God I speak a little  spanish myself.  I just emailed her back (she  wanted to know when I was moving to NC).  But how  to do C & F when English isn't the main language?    Thanks,    Boosted but needing help still.   


 >>>MY COMMENTS: 

 lol... say what?  

Now you know how to meet beautiful women, and you're emailing me to ask how to be Cocky & Funny by email with a woman who speaks a different language? 

 lol... you're killing me. (lol=laugh out loud)  

Don't worry about being Cocky & Funny. This girl obviously likes you...  

Cocky & Funny is a PIECE of the formula. Not the entire thing. In this case, open up your "Bridges" report that you got with Double Your Dating, and READ IT AGAIN.  

You need to get in FRONT of this girl again, and DO SOMETHING!  

The hottest girl in the world is waiting for you, man. Don't dilly-dally.  

Now get to it, and quit wasting time writing her love letters!   


***QUESTION***   

David,   

I am a 51 year old widower who had dated pretty  attractive women in high school and in college.   But after being married twice and falling into  the "yes dear" routine, I had definitely become a  "wussy" boy over the past twenty years.  I had  been dating a few women recently, but not getting  to first base with the beautiful ones I really  wanted to go out with. I thought it was because I  was older, had a few gray hairs in my beard, and  could stand to take about twenty pounds of the  old "spare tire".  Not so....   

I started receiving your e-newsletter about six  weeks ago and decided "what the hell have I got  to loose?", let's try some of his suggestions,  I'm not getting what I want anyway.... Well, I am  now dating five different women between the ages  of 35 and 47, three of them are drop-dead gorgeous. One I have been going out with for a while knows  that I am seeing other women, but is OK with it  as long as I still go out with her. A 39 year old  I met online a month ago just wants to meet  regularly for a "no strings attached" sexual  relationship and we've gotten together three  times.  I met her in person two days after I first  wrote to her using your "Funny & Cocky" approach.  She's the least attractive of the lot but one of  the best lovers I've ever been with and even has  me talking her to climax over the phone when we  can't be together in person!    

Dave, thanks for your help.  I once again feel  like the man I was in my twenties!   Later, MojoMan   


>>>MY COMMENTS: 

 Wow, I'll bet your friends hate your guts right about now.

  Then again, doesn't sound to me like you've had any time to call them... so what the hell.  

Isn't it interesting how different things can be when you know how to communicate with women in a way that triggers their ATTRACTION?  

Women love the play, the challenge, the mystery, and the EMOTIONS that they feel when you use this stuff.  

Great job, and thanks for the email.  

Oh, and I personally believe that any man who utters the words "Yes, dear" as a serious response to a woman should be taken out back, beaten until crying (which probably wouldnÕt take long), and forced to wear an uncomfortable, tight-fitting dress to the chalkboardÉ at which time he should be made to write "I will stop acting like a Wuss Bag" four million times.  

Nothing personal, mind you...    


***SUCCESS STORY***  

My shy demeanor while standing back and hoping my  looks will attract has provided little success  with the hot women I wanted to meet. I am 44 years  old and have been doing this shy respectful what  does she think of me frame forever and real  results where just not happening.   

I bought your advanced series and was hooked.  Reframing and not caring about the outcome is so  powerful!  On the first night out after listening  to your series was fantastic. I went to a concert  with a friend of mine and I immediately interacted  with a very attractive 25 year old at the  refreshment counter. At intermission we were back  for more with her but just not really getting in.  At that moment I stopped 2 very hot women walking  by and proceeded with cocky and funny and a who  cares about the outcome frame and within two  minutes one of them was asking for MY number and  actually initiated a kiss!!   

Women are Competitive, I turned around and this  attractive server was wide eyed smiling and also  proceeded to also ask for my number. I am getting  together with both of them after they initiated  the first call to me the very next day! I felt  that power in almost every situation I encountered  that night and ended up with 8 phone numbers in  total!   

 This was only my first step with so much more to  come. Your series was clearly the best investment  I have made in this women and dating area! IT  WORKS!!!   

Thanks David

 N Z 
Milwaukee, WI   


>>>MY COMMENTS:  

8 Phone numbers in one night out.  

For a "shy and respectful" 44 year old guy.  

Not bad, I'd say.  

BUT THAT'S not the BEST part!  

The BEST part is that you "GOT" an important lesson. You realized that women are VERY, ULTRA, MIND-BOGGLINGLY COMPETITIVE. (Don't you love it when you say a word, but you don't know if you made it up, but you don't care either because it was perfect?)  

Yes, women are VERY competitive with each other.  

And one of the STRANGEST aspects of this competitive nature is that the MORE ATTRACTIVE a woman is, the more COMPETITIVE she usually is with other women.  
I can't figure this one out for the life of me, but hey... I don't ask why electricity works. I just flip the light switch on.  

Married guys often get more than their fair share of attention from women.  

If you're out on a date with a super-hot woman, other women will look at you (and her) more.  

If women see you talking to other women, they will be more likely to talk to you.  

If you walk into a bar and talk to every woman in the place, other women will see it and be more receptive to you.  

Are these universals? No. But they do TEND to be true in most cases.  

And the situation you mentioned... talking to one or more women, then stopping to talk to DIFFERENT women, then turning BACK to the first one or ones you were talking is is VERY POWERFUL.  

It "says all the right things" without you even having to "say" anything.  It's like strong eye contact, or slow and deliberate movements. 

It's something that INSTANTLY communicates everything that you need to say without words.  

By the way, thanks for calling my program the best investment you've ever made "in the women and dating area". I put a lot of time and energy to make it the best, and it's great to hear that it's working for you.    


***COMMENT*** 

 Hi David,  

I'm B and I'm eighty one years old.  I've been  on your mailing list for some time and think that  what you are doing is truly marvelous. Just being  on your list has changed my outlook on  relationships and self respect. Habits of  deference to females is pretty ingrained in old  guys like me, but I'm trying to adjust to your  inspiration.  I've been "dating" a couple of  younger (60-70s) for bike rides and such and  thank you for new insight.   

You are a national treasure. 

B (old high school teacher)   


>>>MY COMMENTS:  

Now THAT'S what I call cool...  

You have to write me a story about one of your "younger gals"... this is going to be VERY interesting.  

I love my job.    


***QUESTION***    

Hi David,   

I have your Advanced Dating Techniques DVD set and  it was well worth the money spent many times over.   It has been amazing to see how many mistakes I  have made over the years with women due to a weak  inner game and understanding of women.  Thank you  for taking the time and energy to put this series  together.  I am finally "getting it."  I am now  putting your techniques into practice with a new  confidence and will report back soon I'm sure with  success stories.   

My question is when using online dating services  such as match.com, what is an effective way to  describe yourself in your profile, what you're  looking for in a mate, and also what are  effective methods for an initial email to a woman  of interest?   

Regards,  

whm 
Irvine,California    


>>>MY COMMENTS:  

It sounds to me like you haven't listened to the ENTIRE program yet.  

Later in the program you'll find that I have actually provided you with examples of profiles that I've personally used to meet women online, several examples of instant message conversations, and insights into the psychology of meeting women using the internet.  

I met my last girlfriend on the internet, actually. She's 5'10" tall, and the hottest woman you've ever seen in your life. Not to mention intelligent, funny, emotionally stable, and a joy to be around.  

And she contacted ME first.  

ALSO, I interview one of my good friends who taught ME how to meet women online... and he shares some of his secret strategies as well.  

A hint about most of these personals sites that most guys don't know:  

If you update your profile, it brings your ad back "to the top of the pile" and more women see it.  

So update your profile DAILY. Even a small change will do.  That one little tip will EXPONENTIALLY increase your results...  

...and for more tips like these, be sure to download a copy of my eBook, "Double Your Dating", and sign up for my free Dating Tips Newsletter. I really want to see you get this part of your life handled for good, and these are the tools you need to do it. 

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